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    • @Wxnzxn@lemmy.ml
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      61 year ago

      I had conversations with my ex on there so on the one hand, it is good I can’t return any more to torture myself with reminders of what a piece of shit I am, but on the other hand my psyche irrationally feels despair because it cannot return to torture myself with reminders of what a piece of shit I am

      • @DudePluto@lemmy.world
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        61 year ago

        You lost a remnant of someone you cared about, so it makes sense even though it was bad for you in the long run

      • superkret
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        51 year ago

        Would it help you if I called you a piece of shit from time to time?

        • @Wxnzxn@lemmy.ml
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          1 year ago

          Thanks for the offer, but for the proper effect you’d have to fall in love with me for a few years, then break up with me, with me getting weirdly clingy and longing in the following “trying to be friends” phase, with me slowly realizing what a bad influence I had been in your life and crashing into the realization that it was pure hubris of me to think I could be deserving of love and in a healthy relationship to begin with. That sort of messed-upness doesn’t come that easy.