Woke is when someone on the left. Feminist are at least generally associated with the left, therefore woke.

Another reason to say “Fuck cars!”

I don’t hate trans people, I just don’t think anyone should be forced to be uncomfortable because of them.

You’re scratching your head at why people are mad at you, but it’s probably because you’re trying to find some compromise between being pro and anti trans - two diametrically opposed ideas. You’re point seems to boil down to: “I’m not transphobic, but trans people might make people uncomfortable, and we should also consider that.”. But, why should be? Trans people making you feel icky is a piss-poor reason to say they can’t use their preferred bathroom. People were concerned about Gay people and Black people in the same spaces as straight/white for a big chunk of the last century, it’s the same reactionary bullshit as always.

Not if you’re transphobic. It’s a pretty telling response, honestly.