• magic_lobster_party
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    231 year ago

    I also dislike the “hey how are you?”. I understand they want to be friendly, but it only adds another step in the conversational exchange.

    “Hey how are you?”

    “I’m fine. You?”

    “All good”

    “Cool”

    “[the actual request]”

    • @elvith@feddit.de
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      71 year ago

      I think it’s fine, if done with the nohello approach:

      Hey , how are you/had a nice weekend? I could use some help with ticket #12345 as I need to do … and don’t know how to do …

      But otherwise - yeah, you’re now right at the end of my to do list.

  • @DavidGarcia@feddit.nl
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    211 year ago

    This made me realize, talking to people is like forcefully inserting you thoughts into their brain without their consent. People should just stop talking in general IMO.

  • NumbersCanBeFun
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    101 year ago

    My solution is to do it all in one line:

    Good afternoon. I’m just letting you know our meeting was rescheduled to tomorrow. Have a nice day!

    • @eee@lemm.ee
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      51 year ago

      Yes, this is exactly how it should be done. You’re leaving room for polite convo but also not needlessly adding a few extra steps in the chat

  • WaLLy3K
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    71 year ago

    “Hi, can I ask a question?”

    No, don’t ask to ask a question.

    • Echo Dot
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      31 year ago

      Somebody message me something along those lines a few weeks ago.

      Them: Them can I as a question?

      Me: If you must

      Anyway, they complained to HR and they had a word with me. Stupid people. If you’re going to be an international company and put your IT department in the UK, prepare for snark.

  • @Zacryon@feddit.de
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    41 year ago

    Well, I usually take my time to reply. It’s not my fault, when people then need to wait until they cut to the chase. That doesn’t bother me. It’s their problem.

    • @chunkystyles@sopuli.xyz
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      21 year ago

      I have done this before.

      “Hi chunkystyles, good afternoon.”

      Sometimes I’ll wait for a few minutes to see if they follow up and then respond. Sometimes I just don’t respond until they cut to the chase if it’s not someone I talk to regularly.

      • @Zacryon@feddit.de
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        11 year ago

        Minutes? It happens that I don’t respond for hours or sometimes even days. (Depending on how close we are.) :D

  • @neocamel
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    21 year ago

    Last week:

    “Hi Neocamel, it’s Tom from work.”

    ~no follow-up message~

    Me, 15 minutes later: “Hi!”

    The end.