• PoPoP@lemm.ee
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      9 days ago

      Most men can drastically improve their appearance with some effort. Best plan for this is to ask your closest female friends what you can do. Also, having an attractive personality counts for a lot (potentially more than looks depending on the woman) assuming you aren’t fuck ugly.

    • ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.uk
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      9 days ago

      Most people have good qualities that make them attractive (if you have none then that might be something to work on). Just treat women like they are ordinary human beings (which they are) - ask questions, listen to the answers, check back with them at a later date to see if that thing they mentioned worked out, offer to help if they have a problem, etc.

      • someacnt@sh.itjust.works
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        8 days ago

        I lack good qualities, true. I don’t know if that could be worked on, as large part of it is me being ASD.

        I treat women as you said, it’s simply that they generally avoid me.