In the past two months, my best friend has not been picking up my calls or reaching out to me when I needed her support during the lowest point of my life.
A year ago, when she was in a similar situation, I was there for her, emotionally supporting and providing whatever she needed during her tough times. Now, I find myself in need of her listening ear, not asking for anything else.
However, I’m worried that I may have overreacted by shouting at her during a phone call. I wonder if I’m being unreasonable in my frustration and if there’s a better way to address the situation.
A “best friend” that isn’t there for you doesn’t sound like a best friend. Either talk to her about it in a civil way and see if there’s something going on in her life you don’t know about it, or find someone else and build a friendship with them
That is what I was trying to do for the past two months, talk in a civil way. And by her posts and stories on social media, it doesn’t look like she’s going through anything dramatic in her life (very low chances that i can be wrong here)