• EleventhHour@lemmy.world
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    in my experience, people use both, but in different contexts.

    “in the mirror” tends to more often refer to a metaphorical “mirror”, typically when discussing self-reflection

    • “I took a look in the mirror and decided to change my ways.”

    “in a mirror” tends to refer most often to actual mirrors that exist in reality, not metaphorically

    • “I looked into a mirror to fix my eyeliner.”

    I’ve seen people use each interchangeably, but i would consider that a common mistake of style and form, not as a common valid usage.

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      A fair guess, but this isn’t one of those times when a grammatical error becomes normalized through common usage.

      There is no grammar rule that separates speaking literally versus metaphorically in this case.

      “You have something on your face; go take a look in the mirror” is just as grammatically correct in English as “You need to take a good look in the mirror and change your ways.”

      I’ve explained why this is standard usage in English in my comment here.

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        “You have something on your face; go take a look in the mirror” is just as grammatically correct in English

        yes, but only if you’re referring to a specific mirror. so, “go look in the mirror” would be appropriate if you’re also indicating to/pointing at a mirror, or there’s been a specific mirror under discussion already (or if the audience already knew there was only one mirror they could be referring to.)

        also, it’s not technically a grammatical error, but one of poor style/form.

        edit: also, i’m not a fan of the “using the grammar and spelling of a 3 year-old is valid because language is fluid!” argument. bad grammar and poor style/form are just that. just because doing so may be popular doesn’t magically make it “valid”. to me, that whole argument reeks of, “I’m not wrong for being ignorant, you’re wrong for pointing out my mistake-- so it’s magically not a mistake anymore so I can avoid acknowledging ever being wrong!”

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          Nope, as I explained in my other comment, it’s standard usage.

          In English, we often use the definite article when speaking in general about a specific activity or action that involves a non-specific object. E.g. “go to the bathroom” or “catch the bus”, or “read the newspaper”. It’s not poor form at all.

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            Nope, as I explained in my other comment, it’s standard usage.

            you explained more or less what i did, except the whole “using the grammar and spelling of a 3 year-old is valid because language is fluid!” BS argument i outright reject–

            and your claims of being an English teacher? it bears no weight here.

            Argument from authority

            An argument from authority (argumentum ab auctoritate), also called an appeal to authority, or argumentum ad verecundiam, is a form of argument in which the opinion of an influential figure is used as evidence to support an argument.[1]

            The argument from authority is a logical fallacy,[2] and obtaining knowledge in this way is fallible.[3][4]

            so, this comment…

            In English, we often use the definite article when speaking in general about a specific activity or action that involves a non-specific object. E.g. “go to the bathroom” or “catch the bus”, or “read the newspaper”. It’s not poor form at all.

            and if you can’t comprehend that this is simply another way of explaining what i did, then i certainly question your claims of being an English teacher.

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              Lol well teaching this professionally surely makes me some form of authority (albeit of course not the authority!) on this subject.

              To clarify, your original point sounded like you were making a distinction between metaphorical mirrors and actual mirrors:

              “in the mirror” tends to more often refer to a metaphorical “mirror”, typically when discussing self-reflection

              • “I took a look in the mirror and decided to change my ways.”

              “in a mirror” tends to refer most often to actual mirrors that exist in reality, not metaphorically

              • “I looked into a mirror to fix my eyeliner.”

              This incorrect distinction is what I was objecting to, because of course we can use both the indefinite and definite articles to refer to either literal or figurative mirrors.

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                Lol well teaching this professionally surely makes me some form of authority (albeit of course not the authority!) on this subject.

                no, it doesn’t, because even if you could prove that to us (which i’m sure you won’t), your authority doesn’t trump evidence and facts.

                This incorrect distinction is what I was objecting to, because of course we can use both the indefinite and definite articles to refer to either real or imaginary mirrors.

                and, as i said previously, it’s not technically grammatically incorrect, it’s just bad style/form. and i reject your argument that bad form is “acceptable” just because its common.

                your inability to parse what i’ve said here and your insistence on pursuing a needless argument really doesn’t add credibility to your position that you should be considered an authority-- or your claim that you’re an english teacher.

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    English teacher here. Articles in English can be really confusing but essentially we use the definite article in this situation because:

    • Uniqueness: In most situations, there’s only one mirror in a room or a home that’s readily available for someone to look into.
    • Generality: Similar to “going to the bathroom,” “look in the mirror” refers to the general act of using a mirror to see oneself, not interacting with any specific mirror.
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      Ukrainian here. IMO, the first statement is half-stupid, the second one is half-overcomplicated :) no offense to you personally, of course. I understand the whole concept of articles in English and know (at least I thought I knew before this post) their correct usage, and in all use cases I can remember the article uses are logically acceptable for a foreigner, but this one with the mirror and the bathroom is messed up a bit :)

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        IMO, the first statement is half-stupid, the second one is half-overcomplicated :)

        Welcome to English, my friend. No one ever claimed that it wasn’t a pain in the arse to learn :)

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        The second example is quite good imo. You would never say “I’m going to a bathroom.” Even if you were in a stadium with hundreds of bathrooms, you would still say you are going to the bathroom.

        Same as you might say I’m taking the train. Not usually taking a train, though I’ve heard that too sometimes. Though oddly you usually say I’m taking a plane, not the plane. Also I’m taking the freeway, not a freeway. I’m usually going to the doctor, less often than a doctor.

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          The second example is quite good imo. You would never say “I’m going to a bathroom.” Even if you were in a stadium with hundreds of bathrooms, you would still say you are going to the bathroom.

          you are justifying this statement “because of reasons” :) this is not a logical explanation. there are a bunch of bathrooms in the world. Am I going to the one specific that was mentioned before in the context? then it’s “to the bathroom”. is this bathroom just a random one that I will encounter on my way? then why not “to a bathroom”?

          same with trains: even if you are speaking about a train route with a specific number, you are not talking about a specific train, then it should be “I’ll be taking a train”. if you are going to take the specific locomotive for a ride in a museum, then, obviously, you are going to take “the train”. this sounds logical for the usage of Articles in the English language, at least in my head.

          same with doctors: if you are going to a specific doctor, and your opponent knows which one by the context, then it should be “to the doctor”, otherwise it would be a random doctor that will be assigned to you as soon as you arrive to the clinic, it cannot be “the doctor” by the same principle I always thought exists :)

          I’m not even talking about the option of using a subject without an article, like in Ukrainian. “I’m going to bathroom”. if I wanted to say which one, I would have stated it, but as soon as I am going to pee in a random bathroom I find, why can’t it be just “I’m going to bathroom”? :D yeah, now it sounds like a verb :D

          whoa, another meaningless “the” appeared. “The English Language” phrasing is used despite there are at least four? five? English languages.

          so… it’s complicated :D but this does not prevent English from being The Language of the World, and I cannot name a language that could have been on its place.

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      Tell me you haven’t read Jonathan Strange without telling me you haven’t read Jonathan Strange 😏 obviously it’s because all mirrors are connected - as entrances to the King’s Way of old.