• @IDew@lemm.ee
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    151 year ago

    I’m more of a lurker myself but that was due to Redditor’s attitude towards me aha. I would say my opinion and I would get downvoted to oblivion as well as a bunch of mean replies. And DMs I have never checked lmao. Over here though, it looks a fucklot more friendly and that makes me want to engage more!

    • @CheshireSnake@lemmy.one
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      111 year ago

      It’s certainly more about discussion here. I’ve made mistakes already and no one has criticized me (yet). Just someone responding about why my opinion/statement was wrong in their opinion.

      If I did that on reddit I’d probably never check my inbox again lmao. Not saying all reddit subs are like that, but a lot are.

      • qprimed
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        41 year ago

        I am biased (of course), but you are experiencing the best of the best - the core of what made reddit good. people who take that leap of faith and break free from the reddit shackles (like you) are just plain built different and I am glad you are here.

        • @CheshireSnake@lemmy.one
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          41 year ago

          I have to agree about many users from a certain group/type of people affected enough by the reddit fiasco are those that are here rn. I’m biased as well, but I appreciate the compliment. Tbh, I’m just going with the flow. I saw a recommendation from reddit and was curious enough to check lemmy out.

          But many of the users here (most probably you included) are here because they actually give a crap. Some are pretty active. Some are already starting communities and posting. I’d love to see the fediverse grow but I’m afraid it’ll end up like reddit.

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            I’d love to see the fediverse grow but I’m afraid it’ll end up like reddit.

            federation will go a long way to keep things in check. current server not your cup of tea (rules, content, etc)? then switch to another or run your own. create your own exactly named and curated community on a different server and federation propogates or prunes it across the network.

            we are in brand new social teritory here and I am thrilled.

    • @Clbull@beehaw.org
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      Reddit and Twitter are incredibly hostile places.

      I have a friend who privated her Twitter account a few years back. She made the mistake of replying to a tweet to state that non-white people can be racist too, and ended up getting doxxed and harassed.

      Also, I remember the time when I kept getting DMs on my Reddit account stating things like “just reminding you that you’re a c***”

      • @IDew@lemm.ee
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        51 year ago

        I’ve not been in a situation this bad before but sometimes I do find it funny to get a random DM without any context say “You’re a cunt”. I would just rofl and go on with life😂 Like what does one achieve woth saying something that doesn’t even land in my brain lmao

      • @Link@lemmy.ml
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        01 year ago

        Crazy, that should be an uncontroversial statement. It’s sad that people on the left have radicalized too and are sometimes going too far, giving the right a larger attack surface. Of course regular algorithm driven social media stimulate radicalization because rage drives up engagement.