You’re basing that off a common style at the time. Least you think many rock and grunge artists were coincidentally all that, with Kurt actually being less involved by comparison.

Don’t make shit up and tell people it’s so, simply because you wish it were so. That’s Trumpistic.

So to you, the only way for a man to feel empathy for women, is if they are “somewhat transfem”…

You need to meet better men.